Thursday, January 27, 2011

活出神放在心中的蓝图




今年的我
计了个大划给自己
冲动有点
但却是第一次勇敢的正视自己
不想给自己后悔的余地

我希望我可以
太积极不懂自己会不会负荷不了


“大声唱哈利路亚.
欢喜快乐吧.勇敢往前踏.
大声唱哈利路亚.
活出神放在心中的蓝图和盼望.
张大眼睛看.神要开路啦.
打开心胸吧.神要扩张啦.
张大眼睛看.神要开路啦.
大声宣告吧.神要扩张啦.
紧紧抓住他.就会有希望.
所以不要放弃.不要放弃.不要放弃阿.”

我不想放弃,因为神不曾放弃

2 Corinthians 5:7

His father takes him into the forest, blindfolds him and leaves him alone.
He is required to sit on a stump the whole night and
not remove the blindfold until the rays of the morning sun shine through it.
He cannot cry out for help to anyone.
Once he survives the night, he is a MAN.
He cannot tell the other boys of this experience, because each lad must come into manhood on his own.
The boy is naturally terrified.
He can hear all kinds of noises.
Wild beasts must surely be all around him.
Maybe even some human might do him harm. 
The wind blew the grass and earth, and shook his stump, but he sat stoically, never removing the blindfold.
It would be the only way he could become a man!
Finally, after a horrific night the sun appeared and he removed his blindfold.
It was then that he discovered his father sitting on the stump next to him.
He had been at watch the entire night, protecting his son from harm.
We, too, are never alone.
Even when we don't know it, a Great God is watching over us, sitting on the stump beside us.
When trouble comes, all we have to do is reach out to Him.

Just because you can't see God, doesn't mean He is not there.
For we walk by faith, not by sight. 2Corinthians 5:7.


This reminded me about the dream of man - the footprints
How many time we needed to be reminded that God is good and He love us.
How to counting the blessing; the goodness of You that i won't be able to forget.
teach me, lead me, guide me to be walking on your way by faith.
"For we live by faith, not by sight" ...it's so clear yet....

Tuesday, January 25, 2011

讲话讲好好, 谢谢

讲话的效益




现代步伐比爸爸的年代快, 讲话的效益相对的也越来越多人重视。



“你吃饱了吗?”这是再普通不过的开场白,但是学问颇深。

如果你35岁以下, 问了这个经典的口头禅。

同年级的熟悉朋友可能会回答“做么?要请呀?”

但不熟悉的朋友可能会对你微笑但心里想着“关你屁事”

如果是比你年长的人, 可能会来不及反映,因为他们没想到你会问这问题。

讲这话的效益就不大, 甚至会降低你的整体形象。

简单的“嗨,你好”反而效益较高。



但如果你是40 以上, 你就可以用这个开场白。

因为你周围的朋友已经习惯这种方式。

你若不问他们,他们也应该会回问你。



如果面对长辈,这个开场白可能可以聊1个小时。



问对的问题,肯定可以帮助提高个人形象。





现代人用电话沟通甚多。

看不到脸部表情,问问题时要更为谨慎。

你也许看过朋友把手机拿的远远的并且表现出一幅不耐烦地表情。

重点摘要,是很重要的。



“噢,没有啦, 我只是想问你…” 也是非常避忌的话。

如果你看得到对方的表情,可能他已翻着白眼,问着自己“到底是有还是没有?”



如果你发现你的对话中,有很多的“其实”, 或者你需要一直的重复你的问题,

请你检讨,问题可能出在你表达的方式。

不善的表达方式,会让人失去对你的信心。



清楚的表达你的需求,接线员才能事半功倍的帮你解决你得问题。

试想想,不正确地说明把原本要转至会计部的电话转到其他部门, 不但干扰其部门,也让你的需求不得要解。



你问题的答案,究竟是不是你要的。

甲:你星期三几点放工?

乙:5点。

甲:那么你要去那里吃饭?

乙:回家吃。

甲:哦,那个谁讲想要去阿文家BBQ?

乙:哦,我答应要回家吃饭了,我不能参与。

甲:其实没有啦,只是想问你那个烤鸡那里买呀?

Friday, January 7, 2011

因为...所以

开车应该可以再慢一点  车祸还蛮可怕的
电影应该需要看多几场 场场大制作花RM10 + 2 小时

幸好这事还可以因为所以
那太多的事不能

太快了

2011 太快了
又一次我还没准备好
记得2010 也是如此

2011 我希望
时间可以停留的久一点
上帝我要学习度日