赴约

他是一个选择

他是一个决定

他还考验你是否诚信

务必赴约哦

现代人太多的自我议程 

忙碌的生活中 

我早已为自己安排好了

赴约单单只因 

你我关系

越是紧密越是出席

不熟

哪怕空着一天

也不想见你一面

你被召了吗

肯来吗

没有穿礼服的

依据当时年代文化

主家往往预备了礼服给宾客

竟然人都来了
为何还执迷

要来就全情参与吧

为何自我挣扎

顺服就这样难吗

马太福音 22 

娶亲的筵席

耶稣又用比喻对他们说： 2 “天国好比一个王为他儿子摆设娶亲的筵席， 3 就打发仆人去，请那些被召的人来赴席，他们却不肯来。 4 王又打发别的仆人，说：‘你们告诉那被召的人：我的筵席已经预备好了，牛和肥畜已经宰了，各样都齐备，请你们来赴席。’ 5 那些人不理就走了：一个到自己田里去，一个做买卖去， 6 其余的拿住仆人，凌辱他们，把他们杀了。 7 王就大怒，发兵除灭那些凶手，烧毁他们的城。 8 于是对仆人说：‘喜筵已经齐备，只是所召的人不配。 9 所以你们要往岔路口上去，凡遇见的，都召来赴席。’ 10 那些仆人就出去，到大路上，凡遇见的，不论善恶都召聚了来，筵席上就坐满了客。 11 王进来观看宾客，见那里有一个没有穿礼服的， 12 就对他说：‘朋友，你到这里来怎么不穿礼服呢？’那人无言可答。 13 于是王对使唤的人说：‘捆起他的手脚来，把他丢在外边的黑暗里，在那里必要哀哭切齿了。’ 14 因为被召的人多，选上的人少。”

hare on em

The Parable of the Wedding Banquet

22 Jesus spoke to them again in parables, saying: 2 “The kingdom of heaven is like a king who prepared a wedding banquet for his son. 3 He sent his servants to those who had been invited to the banquet to tell them to come, but they refused to come.

4 “Then he sent some more servants and said, ‘Tell those who have been invited that I have prepared my dinner: My oxen and fattened cattle have been butchered, and everything is ready. Come to the wedding banquet.’
5 “But they paid no attention and went off—one to his field, another to his business. 6 The rest seized his servants, mistreated them and killed them. 7 The king was enraged. He sent his army and destroyed those murderers and burned their city.
8 “Then he said to his servants, ‘The wedding banquet is ready, but those I invited did not deserve to come. 9 So go to the street corners and invite to the banquet anyone you find.’ 10 So the servants went out into the streets and gathered all the people they could find, the bad as well as the good,and the wedding hall was filled with guests.
11 “But when the king came in to see the guests, he noticed a man there who was not wearing wedding clothes. 12 He asked, ‘How did you get in here without wedding clothes, friend?’ The man was speechless.
13 “Then the king told the attendants, ‘Tie him hand and foot, and throw him outside, into the darkness, where there will be weeping and gnashing of teeth.’
14 “For many are invited, but few are chosen.”

飞。机场

不止一次

我坐在繁忙的机场

等待着

看着人来人往

实在的

我并不介意

等待

在极为忙碌

熙熙攘攘的地方

我静静的

我沉淀自己

忙碌的思绪

很多人都说

机场是离离合合

情绪复杂交错

的地方 

还记得

我到菲律宾把行礼弄丢

我还曾经让来自澳洲的表妹久等

接妈妈 接妈妈

送弟弟 送短宣队

飞曼谷 飞金边 飞巴厘

机场

我熟悉的地方

Love is a choice

“You can make this choice by loving the Lord your God, obeying him, 
and committing yourself firmly to him.” (Deuteronomy 30:20 NLT)

Today we’ve bought into this myth that love is uncontrollable, that it just kind of happens to you.

In fact, even the language we use implies that we can’t control how we love. We say, “I fell in love” — like it was a ditch! I was just walking along one day and — bam! — I fell in love. I just couldn’t help myself. But is that really love?

Attraction and arousal are uncontrollable — no doubt about it. But attraction and arousal are not love. They can lead to love, but they are not love.

Love is a choice.

During a wedding ceremony, a man and a woman stand before each other and say their vows. They say to the other person, “I choose you above everybody else in the world, and I choose you for the rest of my life.” They make a public statement of their choice — that’s a commitment.

You can’t force somebody to fall in love with you, and you can’t force him or her to stay in love with you. Why? 

Because love is a choice. Love cannot be forced. This is true of all relationships, including your relationship with God.

Deuteronomy 30:20 says, “You can make this choice by loving the Lord your God, obeying him, and committing yourself firmly to him” (NLT). You must choose to love God. God isn’t going to force you to love him. You can thumb your nose at God and go a totally different way. You can destroy your life if you want to. God won’t force you to love him, because love is a choice.

What will you choose to do?